Romantic Relationship and Patterns ❤️
We repeat the same energetic patterns that we learned with our parents in our romantic relationships; no exceptions, unless we are healed to some extent. The learned patterns are part of the default setting.
In other words, that’s the negative Karma…
There is no coincidence that people who have alcoholic parent(s) tend to have partners with the same problem. People who have parent(s) with money issues tend to have partners who have similar issues.
When you start seeing the same patterns repeating in your relationship, that is where your core wounds are.
Some common cases are:
* Sense of guilt
* Sense of unworthiness
* Sense of selflessness
Those people carry this non-serving energy from past lives and are still unconsciously trying to compensate. They need someone with problems. It’s unconscious…
Some cases we call co-dependency. Underneath, there are senses of guilt or unworthiness.
Again, the only remedy is to confront the pain.
You must be willing to look deeper into your psyche and see what energetic pattern you have that is repeating in your romantic relationship…
When you see the pattern, cognitively understand it and change it.
The patterns will repeat unless they are healed. We could say that every relationship has a purpose for healing our wounds and pain.
When the healing is done, the relationship would dissolve because the primary purpose of every relationship is to heal souls…
Discomfort in an Area of Life
Examine your life and see what area(s) you still have the most discomfort:
* Do you keep encountering accidents or physical illness all the time?
* Are there people who give you a hard time?
* Do you keep yourself busy all the time?
* If so why?
If you keep encountering racist issues in your life, there is a racism inside you that is not healed…
If you have a considerable amount of debt, most probably you still have a ‘value’ issue about yourself that is not healed yet.
We keep attracting problems that are closely related to our wounds.
So, look carefully into your life and write down the most repeated experiences and emotional signatures to help you learn what they are…
These indicate the areas where you still need more love and caring for yourself.
Healing and Integration ❤️
When you discover your core wounds a huge part of the healing is already done…
When you allow yourself to feel and cognitively understand the wound, it will be healed and transcended.
* Discover core wounds
* Feel the pain (emotions)
* Cognitively understand the wounds
* Transcend and integration takes place
Any sub-personality that remained unhealed will be integrated. The separation will be integrated, and you will be one step closer to your whole-self.🙏